How to not be self-conscious in bed with your partner
Some people tend to get self-conscious and also a little underconfident when they are in the same bed with their partner. While we should always be happy and proud of the body we have, the insecurities regarding our b0dies do come to us naturally. And when they do, it leaves an impact on the enjoyment in the bedroom. However, there are some ways in which you can feel confident. Below we will tell you.
1. Pay attention to your sensations
While you are in the act, instead of thinking about how you look or something like that, think along the lines of what you are feeling in the moment. Think about the sensations you are having because of your partner’s t0uch. These thoughts will help you put the focus away from self-consciousness.
2. Tell your partner what you want or like
Letting your partner know how are feeling, how their t0uch makes you feel, or simply complimenting them, will take you a long way. Communication is the best key!
3. Take charge
This is one of the best ways to let go of self-consciousness. Try having a alter ego and go bold with your moves, and see how it surprises (and excites) your partner.
4. Do things that you’re comfortable it
For example, you can wear an oversized t-shirt or a sweater. If you will try to do something or wear something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you will continue to be self-conscious.
5. Make eye contact
When you look straight into your partner’s eyes, it makes you come off as bold and lets you feel utterly confident about yourself. At the same time, it will also drift your focus from yourself.
